VMAP – BDSM and Power Exchange – Episode 1

VMAP – BDSM and Power Exchange – Episode 1

Is there a tie between BDSM and mental illness?  We investigate in VMAP – BDSM and Power Exchange – Episode 1 What are the hidden needs that drive humans to want to be hurt, confined, or suffer emotional pain?  Can these be healthy in a relationship? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4QoTyRqMKQ In the next several Episodes VMAP looks at the core link between BDSM and Power Exchange, starting by understanding what BDSM is, and the needs that drive it. PLUS!…

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D/s Position Training 

D/s Position Training 

by James Gordon This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License. Download the Position Drill Chart Most of our experience has been with female-bodied persons, and a focus on feminine presentation.  These positions may be adopted for use by anyone, and are shared as a reflection of our experience, and a workable system of position training.  It is designed as a set of possibilities to be adapted and expanded on, not to…

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The Laundry List

The Laundry List

Negotiation of a Power Exchange is not primarily about negotiating for BDSM play, but a frightening number of books present it that way.   Below we’re going to  present a laundry list of things that can and should be negotiated.  While we’ll go into this in more detail later, understand these are things to work through in the first few weeks or months of a relationship, not something to try and hammer out in advance or…

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