Definitions of “master, slave, submissive, dominant”

Definitions of “master, slave, submissive, dominant”

Definitions of “master, slave, submissive, dominant” particularly with regards to valid definitions that distinguish between them. Also available on Fetlife Since it seems to be a popular topic, I’m going to polish my thoughts and put them in a writing so I can just point to it in the future, rather than repeating thisad nauseam These terms are real and can be useful, but there are no valid definitions of them. That breaks a lot…

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The Laundry List

The Laundry List

Negotiation of a Power Exchange is not primarily about negotiating for BDSM play, but a frightening number of books present it that way.   Below we’re going to  present a laundry list of things that can and should be negotiated.  While we’ll go into this in more detail later, understand these are things to work through in the first few weeks or months of a relationship, not something to try and hammer out in advance or…

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